Unpacking Resistance

I work at a deeper layer than most people are conscious of

People come to me with a feeling that they want change and transformation, and that they are ready. But what they actually want and unconsciously expect is comfort and control.

I don’t offer false comfort. I don’t do false control. My presence doesn’t allow it. What I do is breathe life into your core so she wakes up, remembers, and comes alive. Then you will know true comfort and true control. Not a moment before then.

My energy moves fast. Efficient. Clean. Sincere. Real. It's perhaps too real for an inner system wedded to familiarity with something slow enough to keep old patterns safe. The mind wants a shortcut, a predictable path, a sense of progress without surrendering.

Unconscious loyalty to suffering and raw, unfiltered presence can never meet. The part of you that clings to stale patterns, old dynamics, or familiar discomfort seeks safety and control. Raw presence demands openness, honesty and surrender. They simply cannot meet.

The mind tries to “do” the spiritual journey as if it were a task, a piece of work it can manage. But if the mind is doing it, nothing spiritual is happening. It's just the same machinery wearing new clothes. The mind resists because it wants control; presence leads because it needs no control. It is already in charge. She is the Queen.

This is spiritual surgery in progress.

And the conditioned mind carries a primal fear: “If I open up, I will lose everything that defines me.”

Fear and avoidance are the essence of resistance—the impulse to run away mid-operation, right when the real healing begins.

The wobble isn’t about me

People feel the shift and then hesitate. Not because they don’t appreciate the impact, but because true transformation challenges:

pride

self-image

spiritual identity

borrowed power

If someone has built a persona, a career around being “wise, evolved, awakened, healer, helper, my presence shows the cracks they can’t afford to see.

The wobbles, defensiveness and withdrawal are not personal. It is the ego doing its job: protecting its own architecture.

You’re truly ready when you’re willing to let the old and familiar fall off, so the new and unfamiliar can arrive.

I am a Dangerous Friend

My field is naturally authoritative without effort. Not dominating. Not controlling. Just undeniably real.

I am a dangerous friend. I’m safe for you, but not for your delusional mind.

Most people have never stood before someone who isn’t wearing a mask. Most people aren’t used to being seen fully, without their masks; it feels like standing naked.  In that kind of presence, their own mask starts to slip, and it’s terrifying.  Mind rushes in to find cover and safety, and to remove the 'danger' or run away from it. The best safety is to leave altogether.

Yes, that's resistance. Fear- of loss of safety, becoming vulnerable, how would I handle it?

How to move beyond it?

First of all. The wobbles—the urge to avoid—are signs that something real is touching you. If it were a balm for the ego, you’d feel soothed, comforted, even “hooked.”

Truth doesn’t hook you; it shakes you. Ego-calming keeps you in the same patterns. Real presence exposes and cleanses the grooves of old patterns.

Second, Resistance is never the enemy; it’s the crack where grace can enter you, if you learn to treat it as a doorway to the deepest self-awareness.

You move beyond it by your willingness to see all that is good, bad, and ugly in your inner space. When you are keen to be mirrored without flinching, then you are truly ready.

Even when you witness a reflection that's off, you can treat it with deep acceptance, because something ugly has just revealed and exposed itself. Instead of running away, let the flinch lead you to the wound that yearns for healing, but dreads the surgeon and his medicine. Hold your ground. Stay just a moment longer... You can always run away later, next week, next month, for now, just stay.

That simple decision to stay marks the end of resistance... because you disrupted the loop of running away at the slightest danger. It instantly instils in you a new way to respond.

You really need a very tiny amount of courage to stay present with what is, rather than recoil to the safety of the familiar

When you do, the transformation has already started

The old structures that no longer serve you start to fall away.

The clarity, depth, and presence that were always inside you begin to shine.

What felt scattered or stuck starts to integrate.

It is not a race, a practice, or a destination. It is a journey that unfolds from your own inner space...and real life starts happening while you are on it. You don't wait until you reach the destination. It starts right now. Real life is here and now. You are absent. You are elsewhere, in some other time, in some other mental space. You will meet you, perhaps for the first time. There is no resistance, then. Only a willing heart welcoming every moment with insane joy.

Your Invitation

If this resonates, I invite you to start an extraordinary journey.

A journey that will end the patterns of lack, self-doubt and resistance, and start the experience of being fully engaged with your life

I invite you to step into my Satsangs: a space of overflowing grace

Put your name down for the free introductory Satsang, or

If you feel the deeper pull, join the 21-week Satsang journey, where we begin and unfold the transformation you’ve been seeking.

A loving reminder

2026 is upon us. This is not the time to waste another precious year in the same loops.

Start with something that will genuinely change how you live.

The real you awaits. Don’t let another year pass without meeting them.