
Divine Up
Here, you find exactly what you've been seeking, without needing to search anymore.
Your own deep knowing has brought you to this site.
Being here means you are ready to live as the king or queen of your life.
This transformation is so powerful that you can only know its magnitude by experiencing it. A lasting change that concludes decades of searching.
It only takes one clear step to begin the shift.
Thriving, instead of striving
Home of Lasting Change
Transformation So Effortless It Feels Like a Joy Ride
Catalyst of Inner Transformation
Take the first step towards a fulfilled you
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A Gift That Keeps Giving
Lasting Change
The greatest gift is lasting change. This work purifies your consciousness, causing profound shifts across every aspect of your life.
Effortless Unfolding
Life becomes effortless and spontaneous. The conditioned mind, always in problem-solving mode, begins to soften.
You will be energetically attuned to an Effortless Life, one where your heart opens to receive ever-present grace, abundance and a natural flow of love, support and delightful synchronicities, luck, opportunities, and delightful synchronicities.
Mastery of Emotions
You will learn how to relate to your emotions with clarity and mastery. As suppressed emotions start to surface and release. Your cells begin to release the generational patterns stored deep within your being.
Quiet and Settled Mind
As your thoughts quiet, your life begins to simplify. Your mind settles into clarity, and your spirits feel lighter, uplifted. Joy returns to the small moments of daily life.
Relationships Heal
This energy is a true home-maker. It brings healing to your relationships, beginning with the one you have with yourself. From there, a deeper connection with your loved ones unfolds naturally.
Self-acceptance
A sense of calm replaces your inner critic
Deep-seated feelings of inadequacy transform into true self-acceptance and quiet confidence. You begin to feel deeply at home in your own skin.
Spiritual progress
Qualities you have long yearned for — clarity, life purpose, presence, and connection —begin to integrate naturally into your being. The present moment becomes your home. You begin to live from your inner strength, grounded in a quiet certainty. Spiritual growth is no longer abstract-you can feel it, walk it, embody it. Your purpose becomes clear.
Dreams Replaced by a Grand Vision For Life
Millions live by chasing dreams that aren't truly their own, caught from the collective ether, pursued but rarely fulfilled. How many dreams come true? The new age mantra "Follow your dreams" often keeps you from listening to something deeper: the vision, the dharma that was always your own.
Here, I help you anchor that grand vision, not one you chase, but one that begins drawing life towards you.
The life you have always craved begins to find you
Culmination of Your Seeking
This marks the culmination of your seeking. What you have been looking for begins to meet you.
No longer are you searching for water in the Desert; you can drink to your heart's content, the holy waters of your own being.
What will you lose?
You will lose suffering. This is a deep shedding, a profound release of what no longer serves. Within consciousness, old programming and anti-life energies stay lodged until they are seen with deep awareness, and then they dissolve. These include fear, struggle, victimhood, inertia, disconnection, unworthiness, emotional weight and more. You will feel layers falling away—patterns, dynamics, beliefs, and distortions that were never yours to begin with. As they release, life begins to flow in. Nighty boulders between you and your peace will toll away, as if moved by unseen hands. You will lose the ability to remain in suffering unconsciously. WQhast once felt familiar-pain doubt, gear-no longer finds a home in you
''I dreamt last night I was riding a bike and thanking you for moving obstacles and hazards and I was sailing along quite nicely when I saw the road ahead was flooded. But as I approached it the water just evaporated and I was cycling over pebbles and stones and just glided over it all.''-Hugh Shewring

Ruby Ryan
Self realized Mother, Guru
The originator of the approach 'Your life is your Private Party'
This transmission arises from a direct realization of the ultimate truth. After three decades of seeking, Self-Realised unfolded in 2010, marking the end of the conditioned mind, personal suffering and the beginning of a Reality that no language can truly hold.
I rest where liberation meets fullness. This presence naturally transmits the living peace into the lives of those I work with.
Many who sit with me begin to call me 'Ma'- a reflection of the nurturing essence they feel in this space.
The state of being and the work that flows through me arise through the Guru's grace - Osho and Ed Muzika. I am Home, at peace, not seeking, not wandering, simply here, in the stillness of now. While the world spins in the Maya -the forgetting of the Self- what moves here arises from the unknowing of NO-Mind, the seat of pristine Intelligence.
The subtle energies behind your suffering are read and dissolved, often through what seems like a casual conversation.
'Your life is your Private Party'
[An energetic attunement to finally show up for your own celebration- and start enjoying it.]
This phrase carries its own energetic attunement. When I say it, something begins shifting. You start enjoying your life - just as it is.
I coined it from lived experience. Since self-realisation, I have discovered immense joy in the simple rhythms of everyday life with my family. My life has always been good, but now feels like a vibrant celebration. Like an ongoing gathering where loved ones come together to eat, create, laugh, cry, and share the ordinary blessings of living. It is continuous joy.
Simple, shared and sacred,
I live this way - simple but profound.. I have rarely seen spiritual teachings that approach ordinary life with both reverence and humour. It still bemuses me that something so obvious, so natural, feels unique to my path.
Much of the world's suffering and even its spiritual seeking comes from this simple forgetting: people are absent from their own party and searching for joy elsewhere. If more people remembered this—and turned inward to attend their own celebrations—conflict would ease and spiritual searching would slow.
We'd begin living as in Satya Yuga, the golden age of consciousness, where life is lived humanely, joyously and with natural self-awareness.
Every family already has the perfect setting for their unique celebration—their own home. Yet most don’t realize the party has already begun.
Your life, just as it is, holds everything you need to be fulfilled.
You simply need to arrive at your own party—and begin enjoying yourself.
The key to happiness lies within your own life. You need very little else to feel whole.
I help you enter the space where contentment naturally lives. In the purity of that space, suffering dissolves. Real life—unfiltered—is joyful and whole by default.
Being absent from your own private party—at home—is what creates so much psychological and emotional pain. If more people engaged fully with the life within their four walls, most therapy wouldn’t be needed.
My students begin to find contentment within their own homes—allowing themselves to fully engage in family life.
Mothers become more nurturing, fathers more present, partners more loving, children wiser and happier. Mealtimes turn into joyful gatherings, and time spent together becomes deeply fulfilling.
People are discovering unexpected joy at the heart of everyday life. Family becomes a celebration of the ordinary. And life begins to move—smoothly, gracefully, as it was always meant to.
I feel deep joy in infusing families with love and harmony.
I love guiding women back to their Dharma—empowering them to radiate love and clarity, while nurturing themselves and those around them.
A woman rooted in her Dharma can lead her family—and even society—into a new paradigm.
Transforming one woman can uplift an entire lineage. For this reason, I hold Satsangs for women.
Creating happy men, women, children, and families is closest to my heart.
Thanks to my Indian upbringing, I’ve never felt the burden to heal or change the world. And neither should you.
Just know yourself. That is the most potent way to serve humanity.
When you feel whole and joyful within your own family, the urge to distract yourself leaves you
Nothing satisfies me more than ushering in happiness and harmony within your family—because that becomes the foundation for everything else in life.
When you are at peace with yourself and your loved ones, that peace radiates outward—
quietly touching others in subtle, yet powerful ways. You naturally become an instrument of the Divine.
Divinity integrates into your everyday life.
Who Do I Help?
This work is for everyone. The size or shape of your challenges does not limit the shift that can occur.
Even long-standing or overwhelming obstacles can dissolve with surprising ease.
I work with teenagers, couples, parents, and families.
Therapists, healers, coaches, and spiritual seekers often find—through this work—what they’ve been searching for, for years.
These offerings are open and accessible to all.
Your mind, body, family, and finances are all reflections of your consciousness.
This work shifts you from problem-focused to solution-consciousness—gently, but powerfully.
Before long, you’ll find yourself saying:
“I love my life—and I wouldn’t trade with anyone else's.
What is your part in your transformation?
Simply: you have to show up. The Shakti begins working instantly. The process unfolds from the moment you arrive.
It’s all about you. Your willingness to be happy is essential. You have almost nothing to do—except show up and be willing to own your life. All that’s needed is a soft, even vague, commitment: “I will no longer suffer unnecessarily.”
This process is a force of nature.
It moves through you—cleansing, purging, resetting. Some describe it as a powerful explosion… or like being run over by a bus.
And yet—they emerge refreshed, healed, and revitalised.
This transmission is so gentle and life-enhancing, it re-tunes your inner climate—so you can receive and recognise grace.
In my experience, even seasoned seekers often lack this simple, blunt commitment to themselves.
This transmission purifies and strengthens your dedication to yourself.
The more you recognise grace, the more potent the process becomes. The less mental effort you exert, the more is done for you.
Can you imagine that?
When you and I meet, your flight takes off—fast and direct.
''Dear Ma, all feels very good and I am feeling a lot more gratitude, which is really lovely, it’s gentler and heartwarming. I’m feeling less rigid and much, much less irritation - such a relief we are not griping - it’s all much quieter. I never knew ordinary could feel so good! Thank You Ma.''
''Dear Ma, I had a moment yesterday when I looked in the mirror with fresh eyes. I guess I always scrutinize my face without realising because there aren't necessarily any words. But this felt different, softer. And another moment I looked a my baby with a freshness, as if I recognised the preciousness of a baby for the first time! It seems to me that every day is turning in the right direction.''

Book here and start Flying with me...
Students often express that their progress is so swift and seamless that it feels like they are flying with me.
Not a gradual step-by-step progress; it's a direct flight
Students often say that their progress feels fast and effortless—like flying through stages rather than climbing them.
Most of my work happens in group Satsangs, where people gather and progress together. Satsangs are the easiest way to begin your journey with me.
In the Indian tradition, the path is simple and direct: Satsang is a vibrational tune-up.
“Kindle my heart’s flame with Thy flame.” You become the company you keep. It's the most profound interaction humanly possible.
To live from your core—the Brahman—spend time with me, or with any Self-realised being you can find.
All that’s required is your willingness.
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One-on-one support
If you're going through intense emotional or life challenges that don’t belong in a group space, it’s best to meet me one-on-one.
I recommend booking five sessions. These are often enough to dissolve long-standing blocks and suffering.
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What to Expect from Satsangs
This online gathering welcomes both beginners and advanced seekers.
Wherever you are in your evolution, you will move to the next stage—until there is no more to go.
This process is so deeply life-affirming that you’ll naturally commit to your greater identity and destiny.
During Satsangs:
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Emotions, beliefs, thought patterns, and habits begin to dissolve
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The untamed mind becomes more still and compliant
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Your connection to the Self deepens
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Life becomes simpler, more authentic, more present
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Fear dissolves
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Ignorance lifts
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Grace reveals itself in everyday life
You will feel whole. Not perfect—but complete.
This sacred interaction gently instils values like gratitude, humility, acceptance, surrender, and obedience to the Divine.
These are not forced—they arise naturally when you begin to see your true place in the grand design.
There’s much more to explore…But this gives you the idea.
Spiritual Progress, Not Spiritual Effort
The Indian wisdom tradition says: “Kindle my heart’s flame with Thy flame.” You become the company you keep.
In the Sikh scriptures, there’s a beautiful analogy:
Trade your paper boat for Godship. Then simply relax, enjoy the life-journey—it’s taking you there.
“O Nanak, the Name / Grace of God is the GODSHIP.
One who boards is certain to alight across the ocean.”
(The ocean is a metaphor for Maya—the illusory world created by the mind.)
A seeker-driven journey often creates more delusion. True spirituality is effortless. But when Grace carries the seeker, you arrive.
Relax. Let Grace do the work. Otherwise, you’re left with endless books, constant self-work, and futile mental effort.
''I was dead inside my entire life. I am not anymore. When I feel heavy now its much less heavy. I feel there is a safety net that catches me and bounces me back up. I remember how I used to feel, but I can't feel the same way now. The safety net seems to move higher as time goes on., catching me much sooner'' -Marc Jenkins