A Lived Satsang
(Not a Spiritual Event)
This is not a spiritual retreat in the usual sense. It’s a lived Satsang. It looks nothing like a spiritual gathering.
A few days spent together in everyday life, where something essential quietly reorganises not through effort, but through connection.
In India, Satsang is never an event you attend. It is something you sat in. Its not a mission. You sit in receptivity and relax. It's an understanding that you have come to stay in the presence to sit close, near, in close proximityto what is real, and life adjusts on its own.
This retreat serves as an initiation into “Your Life Is Your Personal Party,” not just an idea to embrace but a living experience to enter into.
You are not stepping away from your life to enter a spiritual reality. You are relaxing back into it like sinking into a soft sofa - more fully, more honestly, and more joyously. People return to their lives more present, more relaxed, more human.
Their families notice it. Their bodies notice it. Life notices it.
This isn’t a promise made lightly. It’s simply what keeps happening.
Who This Is For
This is for ordinary people who want to live their lives more fully.
You don't have to be spiritual, and you don't need to feel "ready."
You don’t need the perfect words, a deep 'spiritual understanding' or any specific knowledge.
You only need a quiet willingness to show up as you are.
It's for those who already attend weekly Satsangs or have worked with me in one-on-one sessions. This residential retreat requires some context on the energy here.
What Actually Happens
When we meet, something begins to move - naturally, quietly, decisively.
Not because of effort. It feels like a house party. There is no breathwork, yoga, chanting, meditation, or mindfulness. The spiritual traps are absent. There is room to be, breathe, without trying to get to some inner state.
We are simply together.
And in that togetherness, the conditioned mind starts loosening its grip.
With a living presence, truth is not discussed; it is caught. Maturity is not learnt; it dawns.
Seriousness dissolves into joy; mental effort gives way to intelligence.
This is not a belief. It is observed, repeatable, time-bound.
Most have emotional releases without a storyline, tears, sobs, feelings of sadness, confusion, etc., show up before moving. The emotional intensity you carried begins to dissipate, without effort or drama. You only realise its true weight and size once you let go of it.
This time with me is unlearning of effort, getting in the way, doership, and ownership. It’s also a deep remembering of what was never missing.
The Rhythm of the Days
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We do nothing special at all.
We are together. We hang out, cook, and enjoy our meals, sometimes a bit too much! We go for walks and take breaks if we're feeling tired. We talk and occasionally watch films. There may be moments of silence, but only if we run out of things to say. We laugh when something amuses us. In these moments, we simply do what feels right.
I have zero agenda to 'get you sorted', there is nothing important that I must teach you. There is nothing to learn. And because nothing is planned or forced, everything meaningful has room to happen.
Emotional release often arrives through laughter, tears, sudden insight, or some old memory. What comes up passes quickly
Resistance may appear, too, because old identities don’t leave without being noticed. That’s natural. We don't mind resistance, it's bound to show up
Shakti moves quickly and effectively when the environment is right. What might take months or years elsewhere often happens in days.
By the third day, something usually settles. The internal noise softens. heart mellows, you start enjoying being with me.
Enjoyment returns.
With that, people begin to feel at home in themselves.
By the time you leave, something fundamental has shifted. Not dramatically, but unmistakably.
A Note on Intensity
Many people say this afterwards: “I didn’t realise how much effort I was carrying until it dropped.”
I am not interested in attacking anyone’s personality. But I am not here to protect false structures either.
Fire doesn’t burn Gold; it purifies it. It only removes what was never needed.
What remains feels lighter. gentler, more alive, more at ease with life as it is.
And yes, many feel mothered here in a way they never have before.
Almost everyone feels held without being managed, seen without being scrutinised.
Ordinary Life, Reclaimed
This is not about excellence, perfection or some alternative reality. It's a grand homecoming in a very ordinary way. It’s about coming back mostly- back to your body, back to the four walls of your home, relationships...settled and present, so you can enjoy yourself, your life without guilt.
Back to being fully human.
This is how real transformation has always happened: quietly, effortlessly and without spiritual circus.
A Simple Truth
A spiritual journey without a realised centre becomes conceptual, psychological, aspirational and endlessly interpretive. Its a movement away from the centre.
This is not a belief. It is observed, repeatable, time-bound.
You’re either drawn to sit at the table—
Or you’re not hungry yet.
Both are honoured.
In India, the Guru is not a personality or a role. The Guru is the axis.
Hierarchy here is not moral. It is structural.
The sun–earth relationship is not arrogance.
The fire–warmth relationship is not elitism.
The mother–child relationship is not domination.


Know Thyself

Satsang changes the basics of how you live your life, how you think and relate to people within your family. Satsang is without exception an earth-shattering happening that resets you to how you are meant to live
Buddhafield
Know yourself, all answers are there
Beyond seeking
5-Day Retreat August/September 2022
''Going on a retreat to Ruby's is like NO OTHER RETREAT!!
There's no meditiaion, no sitting in silence, no rituals, special practices or formalities
Transformation happens while chatting, eating Ruby's delicious homecooked food,dancing, singing, walking in the beautiful relaxed countryside, picking veggies from the garden, watching films and generally having fun!
Ruby is the Mother of All Mothers. If you've heard the saying
“spare the rod, spoil the child”
Well, Ruby's rod is made of the most beautiful velvet but whilst it delivers a firm and direct message, it showers you with the most beautiful heartfelt love.
Not for the faint-hearted for sure !! only because we have never known anything like it.
Ruby has a totally unique approach to support us in resolving our problems.
It's not to FIX us but to INFECT us with pure DIVINE LOVE, as our focus becomes centred in DEVOTION and LOVE rather than our problems. This is the GURU approach.
Those of us who have dived into the expanse of DIVINE PURE LOVE are re-learning how to approach life differently and feeling happier in doing so.
In ourselves, we do nothing but receive the transmission. It is effortless!
We all agree that one thing is happening to us. Our problems and negative beliefs are falling away in return for deepening love and devotion to ourselves and our God.
Ruby is a living embodiment of what she teaches. She lives her Dharma as a wife and a mother, loving and serving her family. She has boundless energy and appears to live a life that is both humble and rich.
It is an honour to be welcomed into her home by her entire family and to experience a genuine atmosphere of service and love.'' Debbie Rowland
''5 days of satsang vacation with Divine Grace at Vorlan rock!!!!! Expect the unexpected and watch it all just HAPPEN. Love it, love it, LOVE IT!''- Alice Pandel